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Maybe it's the performer in me, but I've always found most non ambient music, especially music with lyrics, to be very distracting during sex. I want to be making the soundtrack, I guess. Mark Sottilaro On Saturday, September 21, 2002, at 03:12 PM, Duke Sexton wrote: > Wow, great topic! > > Anyone who's into "scening", role-play, or BDSM, can tell you that > choice of music can become an absolutely integral part of the overall > mood. For some reason, our usual default has been having some or > other CD by Dead Can Dance playing in the background. Dunno if that's > been because it's generally handy, or because they're pretty good at > setting a dark, gothic mood behind our activities. > > For straight sex, we usually end up using something about 110-120bpm > with a beat. Old eighties dance-cheeze is cool (Depeche Mode, > Blancmange, etc.), or non-distracting Techno can do as well. Or if > we're in a more laid-back mood, Trip-Hop can get things moving, > although I'm not too crazy about using Portishead in particular -- > preferring instead Massive Attack, or the first Sneaker Pimps album. > > Hrm, I'm listening to Skinny Puppy's "Last Rights" in the background > as I'm typing this. Now you guys have got me wondering what kind of > sick & twisted scene I could put together with that... <*evil grin*> > > -c- > > > At 09:17 PM 9/21/2002 +0200, Luigi Meloni wrote: >> LOL. Never thought about this. One of the cds I've played more with an >> ex-girlfriend has been the Hair soundtrack. Maybe the funky rhythm... >> dunno...:-) >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: "Matthias Grob" <matthias@grob.org> >> To: <Loopers-Delight@loopers-delight.com> >> Sent: Saturday, September 21, 2002 8:13 PM >> Subject: adult only loops >> >> >> > Its full moon, my friends... did you live the animalistic >> procreation >> ritual? >> > >> > this is not OT, sex is the primal form of improvisation! >> > >> > How do you do it: >> > - without music? >> > - with any kind of music? please... >> > - ambient music? dance music? >> > - latest recordings of yours? >> > - you create a specific collection of appropriate pieces? >> > - you create the loop and let it run >> > - you keep coming back to the instruments to change the loop a >> little >> > - you play while she seduces you and then repeat... >> > - you play all the time. (wow!) >> > - you just sing or whisper ;-) >> > >> > Any kind of music can be quite distracting. Specific music can be >> > stimulating, syncronizing, conducting... >> > For me, it must have a lot of dynamic. And I always confirm we end >> up >> > following it, even without listening to the music at all. >> > So it is interesting to create the music in the mood! ;-) >> > >> > I met erotic films with quite good sound tracks, probably because >> the >> > producer does not care, so the musician just improvises as he likes. >> > Especially interesting with a DVD because the camera mic is the >> > center channel, so you can unplug that and just get a 4 ch mix of >> the >> > music... >> > -- >> > >> > >> > ---> http://Matthias.Grob.org >> > >