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Re: Burden babies(off topic)



  With all due respect to all of you, please keep your speculations or
opinions as to my role or nature or choices as a woman OFF THIS LIST!!!
GET A LIFE!, PLAY COOL MUSIC and leave my reproductive tract THE HELL OUT
OF THIS!!!, K?  thanks...  

Cara

At 08:53 AM 4/1/03 -0800, you wrote:
>Hi Mark,
>But yes, i definetly find the vasectomy a great choice
>if you donīt want any more children.
>after 2 kids i am giving it a serious consideration
>(my apologies for the major off topic gang)
>cheers
>l.a
>--- Mark Sottilaro <sine@zerocrossing.net> wrote:
>> No offense taken at all... but although this is
>> major off topic, I went 
>> totally willing.  I thought, "Am I going to miss an
>> aspect of life I 
>> shouldn't miss?" then I thought, does the world need
>> another human.  
>> No.  Do I have any free time to spend raising a
>> child?  No.  Not 
>> without it seriously cutting into my music time.
>> 
>> We've got close friends with a 3 year old and we
>> spend time with them 
>> almost every week.  Plus, with two bratty cats,
>> we're pretty much full 
>> up here.  My wife has never wanted children and we
>> both agreed that it 
>> was probably bad for her to take hormones for the
>> rest of her life.  
>> The trade was pretty good IMO, just had to sit on an
>> icepack for a week 
>> or so.
>> 
>> Anyway, thanks for your concern, but none was
>> necessary.
>> 
>> Mark Sottilaro
>> 
>> On Tuesday, April 1, 2003, at 12:28 AM, Louie Angulo
>> wrote:
>> 
>> >> Mark sorry to hear that brother,without ofence it
>> is
>> > strange for a mature woman to choose this option
>> as it
>> > is in their nature to have babies.I couldnt begin
>> to
>> > tell you how my kids have changed my life and how
>> much
>> > you learn about yourself through them.Children and
>> > animals are the highest form of purity in this
>> world
>> > and as much of a burden people think they are ,one
>> > smile from your own child has no price and it can
>> be
>> > the medicine to all of your frustrations.Their
>> > inocence is something for us to go back and learn
>> from
>> > as it gets lost along the way.This is why they are
>> to
>> > me the true representation of god.When my 4 year
>> old
>> > grabs my guitar and tries to seriously show my 2
>> year
>> > old daughter how he can play like me i watch them
>> > secretly in awe... he can barely carry it and i
>> have
>> > tears in my eyes from laughing!
>> > P.S.(If you saved some of your fruitful sperm you
>> > still have a chance!)
>> >
>> >> Someone like my wife, who's never wanted children
>> >> and drove me to my
>> >> vasectomy to make sure it didn't happen, must
>> have
>> >> been crazy to choose
>> >> to be barren and spend her extra leisure time
>> doing
>> >> music, graphic and
>> >> jewelry design when she could have had the joy of
>> >> bearing and raising
>> >> my children instead.  (who I'm sure would be
>> sweet
>> >> little angels, just
>> >> like I am/was)  Also, I see that my reason to
>> make
>> >> music is totally
>> >> different now that I'm infertile.
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> >>
>> >
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