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When someone comes backstage after a gig to say "your show was so impressing" my immediate reaction is distrust. But I try to not to show this reaction, because it may very well be that this person does really feel impressed. And I just don't know how to handle that, because according to my understanding there must be something wrong with a person that experiences music as "being impressed". I feel sorry for him and at the same time I feel alienated because I really can't share his feelings. I think the healthy reaction to hearing good music being performed would be to simply get happy and enjoy oneself in that moment. And if anything needs to be said to the player after a concert one could just thank him/her for providing the setting for having such a good time. Defining concerts as "difficult performances" just gives me the creeps....u-u-uh..... ;-) p ,-)