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> > I'd say the self-esteem thing (high or low) is a > self-image, a bunch of > deeply seated ideas about ourselves. This society is > built on comparing and > competition. We suck that up with our mother's milk, > and depending on how we > were configured in the beginning, and conditioned > during our early years, we > end up with a self image that we are either better > or worse than others. > Just like the other parts of our self-image, it is > continuously held up by > habitual - and usually unnoticed and therefore > unconscious - ways of > thinking. Comparing and judging, mostly. Either I'm > not so good and they are > better, or they aren't so good and I'm better. Or, > what do they expect and > can I meet their expectations to that they love and > admire me. Michael this is very true...also if we didnīt have mirrors we would probably all think we are perfectly fit and pretty;-) Gruesse Luis ===== www.luis-angulo.com __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? The all-new My Yahoo! - Get yours free! http://my.yahoo.com