Re: adult only loops = ambient?

[sine@zerocrossing.net]

Matthias Grob wrote:

> MaSo said:
> >Maybe it's the performer in me, but I've always found most non
> >ambient music, especially music with lyrics, to be very distracting
> >during sex.  I want to be making the soundtrack, I guess.
>
> good point!
> So how do you make your soundtrack?
> Since you play with your partner anyway, it easy and fun, no?

It's weird but when I try to think about sounds made during sex, it's
like trying to remember a dream.  I'm sure it exists... I just can't put
my finger on it.  It's a different state of consciousness for sure.
Getting to that state is usually blocked by someone else's music, which
is probably why I don't like it.

>
> I found the AKASHAs experience interesting, but what I am really
> interested is to create the right music for home, discretely but
> truely.

To be honest, that sounds interesting but I can't say I feel the need
for that in my world.  Sure, to use it as a preamble for lovemaking, but
when the "show" starts, I want the stage cleared sonically.  I could be
totally wrong.  I'm sure experimentation is in order.  Perhaps I've just
not found the appropriate music.

>
>
> I think it takes music that involves inconsciously, as ambient does,
> mostly, but with a dynamic that guides...
> For me, lyrics are terrible, too. Moaning of someone else as they
> suggest on some "romantic" CDs even worse.
> For a long time, I did not put any music either, but recently I
> remembered that the best experiences I had with music.
> "Beats of Peace" of mine with David Hoppkins is pretty good.

I'll have to check that out.

>
> A few years ago, it made a not totally young woman experience her
> first vaginal orgasm at all! Ok, there were other circumstances, but
> I could feel how the *music* carried us away.

You are evidently all that and a bag of chips.


>
> My first reaction was to suggest to David to commercialize the
> product as such. He thought I was crazy. Now I must say, he is right,
> its delicate, it was a singular event, maybe the energy of the music
> rather flew through me to her... a lot more investigation would be
> necessary... so I pretty much forgot about it... until this fool moon
> coincides with the start of spring...

I'll start howling now!

Mark Sottilaro